Marriage without trust is like you are working for a company but you are also looking for advantages from side job. And I can say that having trust on each other is the essential and vital thing when it comes to marriage. Moreover, marriage is not about living together without feeling, is it? And if you want to live happily ever after with your partner and have great family, it is not too late to trust each other. But sometimes the trust is just flying away due to a little bad thing in marriage. But it does not mean that it cannot be fixed. Or perhaps you just need to try everything from the start with the same person.
Healthy marriage can only be reached by having faith on each other. Affection of love will not exist if you cannot trust your partner anyway. But still, it is your choice after all. Trust will make you happier in marriage and whole life.
How to grow trust in marriage
Well, it definitely needs time to get that. And of course there is no spell or magic ingredients to make the trust come to your marriage immediately. Besides, you and your partner should give efforts to make this happens especially one of you has some trust or commitment issues due to the previous relationship. Do not lie, even though it is for good reason and fudging is not good though. Just talk about everything. It will simply save you from marriage without trust. And of course, communication is the great start to make your trust grow. Moreover, you need to water that feeling to make them stay strong and growing day by day.
How to rebuild the trust
Nobody is perfect and neither is your partner. If something happened previously and it harmed your marriage (especially it is about trusting), you definitely need to put bigger effort to gain the trust from your partner over again. Here are several things you can do.
§ Ask your partner. If your effort did not work out by your own way, you need to talk to your partner. They will know better about what you need to do if you want to be trusted again.
§ Make a promise. Promise is better to be told not only to your partner but also to yourself as well. Promise that you will be honest and truthful to each other no matter it is fine or hurt.
§ Sharing secret with partner. It is the power of communication as well. You can tell what you go through in everyday especially about struggles and pain due to the phase without trust.
§ Learn how to fight properly. Sometimes fighting is good for any relationship as long as it is done fairly and properly. You need to learn about this thing so even though you two need to fight then this will be a healthy fight.
§ Do not leave your promise. Promise is not only a word to calm your partner. You need to keep it in order to avoid another marriage without trust.
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