Tips to Work on Long Distance Marriage

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Long distance marriage is quite common these days. One of the factors that make a married couple choose to have this particular marriage is their job. Making long distance marriage work can be a great challenge for some couples. However, living in a different town from your husband or wife can give you both advantages and disadvantages. It is said that living separately can decrease your stress level. It is also said that some couples tend to be healthier because they have more time to exercise. The drawback of this particular marriage is that couples miss the day-to-day togetherness.

How to make long distance marriage work
There some tips to make long distance marriage work. Here are some of them:
  • Actively work your marriage

It is very important for you and your spouse to actively work your marriage. Compared to married couples that live under the same roof, long distance marriage needs more effort to keep it working. You must communicate regularly with your spouse. Talking about happy times, dreams, hopes, needs, and wants can make you feel more connected with your spouse. You and your spouse must try to make each other feel that both of you are involved in each other life. You must also keep the spark alive by doing something special when you meet each other.
  • Sharing special occasions

When you are living apart, it can be difficult to share something special together. Different working schedules or even different time zones can cause problems. However, with the help of internet connection and Smartphone, you can share special occasion easily. However, if you have the time, it is better for you to meet and celebrate the special occasions together.
  •  Do something together

Watching the same TV show or having dinner at the same time can be a way to make your long distance relationship feel more normal. When you are doing one of those activities, you must not forget to connect each other via Smartphone or other gadgets. Therefore, you can get the feeling of being close and together.

Long distance marriage is not for all couple

Long distance marriage is not suitable for all couple. Certain couples will have more difficulties in working their long distance marriage though they have done the efforts. If you or your spouse has one of these characteristics, you must think twice before deciding to live apart. Here are some of them.
  1. If you or your spouse suffer from certain disease that needs attention and close care.
  2. If you have trust issue with your partner or vice versa.
  3. If you have never enjoyed your time alone or had your own space.
  4. If you or your spouse is afraid of living or being alone.
  5. If you always have close physical relationship.

Working a long distance marriage is not easy. It needs strong commitment. It also needs frequent and honest communication. Without commitment and communication, your long distance relationship will not likely work. And you cannot get a happy marriage.

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