The beautiful marriage is always the wish of all the marriage
couples from the very beginning when they are married. Of course, no one is
wishing for the worse marriage. Anyone will hope for the best for their
marriage. However, sometimes there are soma factors which might cause the worse
condition of the marriage. The factors might undermine the marriage, as like
the presence of the ex which comes back to the life of you or even your spouse.
If it happens to you, means you become the party who has a great risk on
cheating with your ex or your ex comes back to your life while you are having a
husband or wife and already a family you need to be careful to defend your
marriage from the presence of your ex. Sometimes, your ex just comes in the
wrong time, when your relationship with your husband or wife is not in the best
condition. However, when it happens, and you realize what is happening, it is
better for doing something which will help you and your family to be broken.
For sure, you do not want it to happen, right? So, the first thing you need to
do is ensuring yourself that you need to defend or maintain your marriage and
family from the worse condition or from the broken condition of your family and
marriage because of the presence of your ex.
If your ex is already approaching you, and you are already
realized that it is not fair and really wrong, it is better for you to keep
away from him or her. Do not give her or him an access to talk to you or even
to be around you. Then, of course, what you need to do is avoiding the
misunderstanding or miscommunication between you and your husband or wife. A
good communication is needed then. You can tell your spouse about your ex and
what your ex does, such like if he or she is approaching you. That will help
minimizing the risk of the miscommunication which might happen between a wife
and husband. Sure, you have to be open to your spouse. That will help you
avoiding the bad misunderstanding between you and your wife or husband. Another
essential thing to do is by improving your relationship with your husband or
wife and also with your family. That will help you feeling that really sure
that your family, including your wife or husband is all you need. They are the
precious ones who could not be replaced with any other things.
You can spend
more time doing any fun things together so that you will have more quality time
with them. That is totally essential to boost and improve your family
relationship quality to maintain or defend your marriage and also your family.
Actually, the key for your great and strong marriage which is away from the
break is by improving your relationship itself, such like by having such a
better communication quality with your spouse or your husband or wife. Then,
always have the great quality time with him or her and also with your family,
including your kids if you already have kids, can be another essential thing to
do first. That is really important for you to notice for always having a full
of happiness family and marriage even though there is your ex who is still
approaching and trying to undermine your marriage. That would not big that big
problem as long as you always maintain your communication and relationship with
your husband or wife and always be open to him and her about anything. That is
so simple for maintaining and defending your marriage from the presence of theex.
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